Sunday, March 2, 2014

Hope, despair and grace


This is a 4 part story of a brave woman.
http://www.livingwellspendingless.com/2012/02/29/amazing-grace-my-story-part-1/

She has gone through hell.
I was already thinking of a few things along what she said.
1) Some people come to our lives to either teach us good things or to teach us a lesson.
    Then they are automatically removed from our lives also, when not required.
2) Each trial that you face, is for you to learn a lesson. You can recognize and acknowledge the problem and try to deal with it as best as you can. You have 2 choices. You can get depressed and negative and go downhill or be positive, gather all the help you can and move up. When you move up you solve the problem. When you go down, you avoid the problem and sink deep. Maybe you are allowed to go to a certain depth, to still allow you to recover but if you do not display the willingness to come up, you're pulled out of the situation but the problem remains unsolved.
So, always choose the intelligent path - of understanding the problem, plan a way out, seek for help and get out. Stay positive.
3) You can always quit the things/ situations you don't like. You don't have to stay and endure bad things. Accept. Quit. Re-strategise. Don't lose everything and sink. Manage to save back something.



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