I am not happy with certain things.
Relations - for one.
With friends its better - except with very few people. But, with family it's a little tough.
When I observe H, he has impeccable behaviour and an awesome attitude which I should follow.
1) Watch what I speak. Something mentioned casually about X to Y could be perceived as gossip or could be taken out of context and quoted. Avoid this trap.
2) Never think about why X did or did not do something. Unless X tells, there is no way to know for sure. So, this is all unnecessary energy waste. Any analysis about any person is bound to leave some imprints in the mind. The only way to avoid imprints is to never analyse or give time to things.
3) Control one's facial expression when discussing someone you're not too happy with. The face is a dead giveaway.
It is so tough to be one's best always. There are things that people do, which piss you off.
But, I don't want to brood long over that or judge someone. I want to take things very light and float on the surface. I want to just keep those few good relations.
Other points in general to improve:
1) Never discuss any form of money. eg: That salad was too expensive, etc. People may perceive you as snobbish and show-offy.
2) Be extremely careful when talking about others. Avoid mentions as much as possible, especially about people you're not great friends with.
3) Unless someone really wants to, never prod them as to why they are upset.
4) Avoid - run away from unwanted info about people.
Relations - for one.
With friends its better - except with very few people. But, with family it's a little tough.
When I observe H, he has impeccable behaviour and an awesome attitude which I should follow.
1) Watch what I speak. Something mentioned casually about X to Y could be perceived as gossip or could be taken out of context and quoted. Avoid this trap.
2) Never think about why X did or did not do something. Unless X tells, there is no way to know for sure. So, this is all unnecessary energy waste. Any analysis about any person is bound to leave some imprints in the mind. The only way to avoid imprints is to never analyse or give time to things.
3) Control one's facial expression when discussing someone you're not too happy with. The face is a dead giveaway.
It is so tough to be one's best always. There are things that people do, which piss you off.
But, I don't want to brood long over that or judge someone. I want to take things very light and float on the surface. I want to just keep those few good relations.
Other points in general to improve:
1) Never discuss any form of money. eg: That salad was too expensive, etc. People may perceive you as snobbish and show-offy.
2) Be extremely careful when talking about others. Avoid mentions as much as possible, especially about people you're not great friends with.
3) Unless someone really wants to, never prod them as to why they are upset.
4) Avoid - run away from unwanted info about people.
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